maiunse · Dream Dictionary

Fighting

Fighting is conflict finding an outlet and energies colliding. Winning means gaining the upper hand in a real contest, and fighting with someone close was read as a sign that the bond will deepen a layer rather than break. A quarrel that stays verbal signals words still unsaid. Taking blows without striking back, by contrast, means you are being held down — worth asking where you have been simply enduring.

A dream of fighting is conflict coming out into the open, a scene of forces meeting head-on. Waking from it unsettled does not make it an ill omen. Traditional lore treated it rather as something held down breaking out into the air, and divided the reading by whether you won or lost and by who stood against you.

Readings by Situation

Fighting and winning

A favourable dream of gaining the upper hand in a real contest. If you have a contest ahead, or a decision pending, it reads as things going your way. The more decisive the win the better it is taken, and more so if you felt relieved afterwards.

Fighting with someone close to you

Tradition held that it rather brings about something that deepens the relationship a layer. It is also a sign that things have been piling up unsaid. What the dream urges is not to quarrel but to bring up what you have deferred.

A quarrel that stays in words

A sign that there is something you still want to say. If no blows landed and only words passed, it means you are in fact still at the stage of speaking. If you remember who you argued with, look at that relationship alongside.

Being struck without being able to strike back

It means you are being held down, so look for a place where you have only been enduring. Tradition too read such a dream as a time when your strength has thinned, and told you to rest. It is also a scene that comes often when the body is tired.

A fighting dream does not foretell a quarrel in waking life, however fierce the feeling in it. It is closer to a sign to notice what you have been holding down. We would not advise squaring up to anyone on the strength of it.

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